How to Start Conversations
Is it really that easy? Yes, just start simple!
Some of our members aren’t sure how to start a conversation with other members of our site. Our advice is to start with short but meaningful messages.
For instance, if you come across a profile of a member you’d like to meet, we thing it’s quite reasonable to send a message like, “Hi, I came across your profile. I appreciated what you said about [...]. Would you like to correspond? -Bill” or “Hi, I came across your profile. You are listed as being 80 years old. But your picture looks 30. Why did you enter your age as 80? -Dieter” or “Hi, I noticed you’re looking to meet someone 25-45. Well, I’m slightly outside your age range, so I’d like to know how flexible you are about that age item. -Lyn” or “Hi, I’d like to chat; if you don’t mind me asking, how often do you attend Church?”
We also think it’s a good idea to send winks to other members, especially if you are a free member who is only allowed 2 messages per day. A wink is an indication that you liked something you noticed in a person’s profile. Maybe the person will wink back, or maybe they will write a note back, or maybe not. Even free level members are allowed many winks per day, so it’s an easy way to take the first step.
We do not encourage our members to write too much in their first messages. If you have a lot to say, it might be effective to offer that as a silent prayer rather than a letter. For the person sending the message, we think sending too long a message as a first step can build an emotional attachment that is inappropriate given that you still don’t know the other person. For the person receiving, it can be overwhelming to receive too long a letter. We believe it’s better to start with a short message that has some personalized content noted based on the profile. Of course, it’s up to you.
Peter
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I’m looking for marriage. I want true devotion, honesty, spirituality, committment, passion, attentiveness,atractiveness, wholesomeness, intelligence,enthusiasm,healthy, and love.
thanks for the helpful advice – much appreciated
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hello to all my sisters and brothers in christ
god is so good god bless u all
hello too all…
Thanks to those who have helped demonstrate here how a few words can be a good way to start a conversation. Don’t be shy, take a chance and say hello to someone new today
Jen
hi i am a filipna looking for a foreign friends,i am a separated woman one son he is 5yro,i am 41 yrs old
Hi Anna, that’s a fine way to start a conversation. Go ahead and join our site by signing up at http://christian-filipina.com and send a few messages like that per day.
Jen
hi! i am new here.. and i love the ambiance of this site,,, i feel the warm welcome of everybody as well as the prayers and Gods word to establish a wonderful day.. hope i will have a lot of friends and hoping to find MR. Right made for me…
Godbless you all and hav a great day!
i am new here im from Philippines
hello!I am new here and i dont know how to start.im searching for someone whom i can get along.
thanks for the tips and advice
Thank you so much for an advice.. It really help us to choose what is the best site today…Thanks a lot and God Bless you all
hello., good to know that you are helping us to be happy in finding friends…
Hi there! thanks for the advice it helps a lot. God bless you all
thank you for having this way of looking for a better friend and partner.
God blesss
Hi! Im a widow and single just registered with Christian and I just wish to meet one nice and unique person to end up with him for a lifetime. Welcome every one.
hi! thanks a lot u helping us to find more friends in foreign places. God bless…
I am truly blessed with this site and I pray that all here will be blessed as I am.May GOD bless us all,lots of love to all here.
hello im here to search my futute husband i am honest and clean intention in joining in this site.
im looking someone loves me accept with me who iam what iam…..i dont have anything but i only i give my faith,and my love.
_.Hi! I’m Ann a filipina.. looking for someone who’s looking for me also.
God Bless!
THANKS FOR GIVING US THIS SITE AND HOPEFULLY THERES ONE NICE PERSON HERE THAT IS SENT BY GOD FOR ME….GOOD LUCK FOR ALL OF US HERE…
hi im new here and i dont know how to start
hi..hello everyone
this is my first attempt to join here. hope i can find a right man tru here in this page that u can trust. I am an honest woman. GOD BLESS US.
Hi! everyone … Have a great day…
Hi!friends i am a new here GOD BLESS U ALL