Comments on: Examples of Scammer Fraud on Dating Websites, Advice From Those Who Learned The Hard Way, And Some Good News

By: Benn

Benn — Fri, 19 Feb 2010 08:11:53 +0000

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By: jen

jen — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 06:30:25 +0000

Hi Fred,

Thanks for your kind words. My wife and I are constantly motivated to continue offering this site by many members who privately express their appreciation and tell us their stories. It’s sad that many of us (me included), who might be overly trusting in some situations, had to learn some of these things the hard way. As I tell our members who call our toll-free number (1-877-FIL-IPIA), we encourage our members to take their time to meet people (don’t let things advance too quickly), and to write or call us to talk about any suspicious activity, because we might be able to help understand whether a situation is realistic, too good to be true, or too bad to be true.

Peter

By: Fred Vincent

Fred Vincent — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 05:27:09 +0000

I have been the victim of scams in the past. Not for great amounts of money but a victim none the less. It has been a lesson well learned. There are deceptive and dishonest people everywhere. I haven’t been a member of this site for very long but as soon as I filled out a profile and began my search I knew I had found the site I had been searching for. I have high hopes for your site and I am confident that I won’t be disappointed. I want to thank you for your willingness to provide your members with some insight to the possible dangers they could encounter. God bless and keep up the good work

By: Max

Max — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 17:31:38 +0000

great tips thanks!

By: Max

Max — Fri, 22 Jan 2010 16:24:32 +0000

This is a good article on Christian dating. Thanks.

By: ivory

ivory — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 14:40:44 +0000

yes! it’s really sad to think that in this 3rd world country like mine, sometimes “Lies, is behind the sweet lover words of Filifina” (not to let down my race, but it’s the fact of reality) but sometimes i would think it’s a mutual symbiotic relationship if both sides have give and take relationship, for foreign take the advantage of situation

By: princess

princess — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 05:32:42 +0000

I’M HOPING THAT THRU THIS SITE I CAN FIND TRUE PEOPLE. AND I DO BELIEVE NOT ALL FILIPINA WOMEN ARE SCAMMER OR USER. JUST KNOW THEM FIRST. ITS UP TO YOU GUYS IF YOUR GOING TO SEND MONEY TO THEM. JUST AN ADVICE BE TRUE AND HONEST AND IT WILL RETURN IT ALSO TO YOU. GOD IS GOOD. HE WILL FIND WAYS.

By: roger

roger — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 22:49:39 +0000

I’ve been aware of scamers for a long time, and I’ve noticed that a few women have had the same experience too. I haven’t been on this site for long, but I have noticed that there are a lot of very lovely ladies here, with big hearts. Some even with kids. I do have an advantage that few have, My dad could smell a scam from across the world. He tought me everything I need to know about avoiding scames. That’s why anyone ask’s for money, I immidietly check into it, useing all of my knowlage as a sciptracer to check things out. the moral of this story is LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP!!!! unless you have visited anyone, and question anything, don’t send money. If you sespect something is wrong, ask the people running the site. I’m sure they will be more than happy to help.

By: jen

jen — Sun, 03 Jan 2010 00:12:13 +0000

Thanks for your trust, CL. We certainly do our best to screen out any member who tries to take advantage of others. We also have designed the site to be as frustrating as possible to those negatively-motivated personalities (so they stay away), while trying to keep it pleasant for our sincere members. We’re still ashamed of some of the fraud we were not able to prevent, however. That’s why we had to resolve to be completely open with our members about these problems so that you understand you must be cautious as you get to know other members.

By: CL

CL — Sat, 02 Jan 2010 21:22:24 +0000

Its sad that pinay women are scamming men out of their money. It is also sad that foreign men are treating filipino women shabbily. I hope I wouldn’t have to meet persons who’s like that. I choose this Christian Filipina ‘coz I know they won’t allow those things to happen here.